EXO’s Chen, long beloved by fans as one of the group’s main vocalists, faced significant backlash following his sudden announcement in 2020 that his then-girlfriend was pregnant. The news, which came as a surprise to many fans, led to a noticeable decline in his fan base. He later welcomed a second child in 2021 and held an official wedding in 2023, continuing his career as a solo artist.
Netizens have shared mixed reactions to Chen’s personal decisions. Many acknowledge that he is a responsible individual who prioritized his family, praising him as a good husband and father. One commenter noted, "He’s the best for his wife, but as an idol, it’s another story," reflecting the sentiment of fans who felt alienated by the timing and nature of his announcements. Others criticized the impact on EXO, stating that his choices disrupted the group’s dynamics and caused fans emotional distress.
Five years later, most fans and netizens say he did the right thing by taking responsibility. As others argue that they don't know if it was the right decision for an idol.
Korean netizens commented:
"He might be a good husband and father, but as an idol… I’m not so sure."
"The irony of being praised just for taking responsibility lol."
"Taking responsibility is natural… and he is a good person to his family."
"Well, he is a real man to his family lol, but from a fan’s perspective it’s different."
"Best to his wife, worst as an idol…"
"Maybe because I’m not a fan? I think the group struggled as idols from that point. From then on, to me, they were over… I feel a bit sorry for the other members."
"Maybe because I’m not a fan, but I think he’s okay as a person even if not as an idol. So many men and even kids don’t take responsibility…"
"From a career perspective, he was the worst. If he didn’t plan to keep doing a career that involves being loved, it wouldn’t matter-but he caused a lot of harm to the group. Also, he deceived fans but is still active, so to me he’s the worst."
"I loved EXO and Chen was my bias, but… I don’t know. I hope he’s happy with his loud family life, but as a group fan, my attachment dropped overnight. Now I have no feelings at all."
"Best man to his wife, worst entertainer to fans… that’s just relative."
"It’s good he took responsibility—it’s the right thing to do. But honestly, the timing of the announcement seemed inconsiderate to fans. Announcing it between members’ birthdays was too much. Maybe if it were his own birthday, it’d be different…"
"Regular people think differently. Looking back, they’re living the best life."
"I was really pissed back then too, but now I just don’t care lol."
"Exactly, you liked him as a person, but those who criticized him saw him as an idol. Announcing a premature pregnancy between two members’ birthdays on the 13th was quite a move."
"Only brainless people would make it an issue. Legally and morally, there’s nothing wrong. Tall or short, good-looking or not, married or dating—what’s wrong as an idol? You can dislike it personally, but it’s not the person’s fault. Just people throwing a tantrum because they don’t like it. Think a little."
"Honestly, marrying, having a child, and living without major scandals can be re-evaluated positively as we get older. There’s so much crazy stuff happening these days lol."
"Honestly, from a non-fan perspective, he looks much better than male idols who go clubbing, cheat, and live recklessly."
What are your thoughts on this?
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