
Singer and actress Song Ji Eun reflected on her past experiences as a member of the girl group SECRET in a recent video on the YouTube channel 'WeRacle'.
In the video titled “Moments that annoyed you during married life?” released on October 7 (KST), Song Ji Eun shared candidly about her struggles balancing her own voice with the group’s decisions.

She explained, “Before getting married, I tended to follow the team’s opinions rather than my own. I was always going along with the trend.” She added, “Because of that, it was hard for me to be kind to myself. I kept ignoring my own feelings.”
Song Ji Eun noted that marriage has helped her become more in tune with her own needs, thanks to her husband Park We encouraging her to express herself. Park We commented, “It took me two years to realize that Ji Eun has a strong sense of taste. During our dating days, she was a ‘yes girl’.”
Recalling her time in Secret, Song Ji Eun said that the spotlight brought a constant fear of falling behind. “I didn’t feel happiness from being loved so much, but anxiety about whether I would fall behind or lose my place,” she said. She added that after a period of inactivity following her career in music, the sudden pause amplified her sense of insecurity.
“Even though I acted okay on the outside, I felt like the ground was shaking inside,” she said. “Looking back, I realize those moments were necessary for me. Without them, I wouldn’t have reflected so deeply on my life and direction.”
Song Ji Eun married YouTuber Park We in October 2024.
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