
On the July 18 episode of MBC’s variety show 'I Live Alone,' Red Velvet’s Joy opened up about her life as the eldest daughter in a family that faced financial difficulties during her childhood. The episode followed Joy as she visited the newlywed home of her younger sister, bringing heartfelt warmth and laughter to viewers.
Joy generously offered many of her own household items to her sister’s new home, including a bed, vanity, wardrobe, TV, sofa, air purifier, and even a mirror. “There’s so much of me in this newlywed home,” she said with a smile. “Most of the furniture and appliances here are mine.”
She shared that she initially offered to buy new things for her sister, but her sister and husband politely declined and only took what they needed. Joy fondly praised their mature and practical attitude, adding to the emotional tone of the segment.
The episode also featured Joy’s candid reflection on growing up as the eldest in a struggling household. “Since second grade, I was the one taking my siblings to the public bath,” she said. “I did laundry, washed dishes, and during school breaks, I’d set up a table and help them study. I carried a heavy sense of responsibility, filling in for our mom.”
Joy went on to express her deep care for her siblings. “Our family wasn’t well-off, but the three of us stayed close. I was lucky to start earning money early, and I didn’t want my siblings to feel the same helplessness that comes with not having money.” She revealed that she had even paid for her sister’s college tuition.
One especially emotional moment came when Joy recalled her sister crying after reading hurtful online comments directed at her. “She’s like another version of me. More than anyone, I just want her to be truly happy,” Joy said, moving viewers with her sincerity.
Joy’s story resonated deeply with many viewers. It shed light on the quiet strength and resilience of eldest daughters who grow up shouldering family responsibilities from a young age, often with little recognition. Through her vulnerability and strength, Joy gave a powerful voice to others with similar experiences.
