Jadewashere64 anicsi • Wednesday, February 8, 2017

Though I agree, alot of people are seemingly being overly mean. Especially towards his weight. (Which I don't think is right) But people aren't accusing him of being sexist because he prefers skinny girls over heavier girls (I agree. You shouldn't be criticized over your preference. As long as you're not being specifically mean to someone). They're accusing him of being sexist because of this, http://www.allkpop.com/article/2010/01/super-juniors-shindong-badmouths-fat-girls He was on the radio show 'Shim shim tapa'. Where a girl phoned in, asking for advice about a fight she recently had with her boyfriend, about her decision to go on a diet. She also goes on to talk about her new year diet plans. Shindong's response: "Don't start if you're only going to quit after a few days. Your body isn't the type to change with a diet." Kim Shin Young, who co-hosts the radio station, stated, "To a girl, a negative comment about her weight is equivalent to asking for a punch." Shindong's response, "If someone had to lose weight, I would tell that person to lose weight. Lose some weight, why can't you take care of yourself. When I say this, the person might think, 'Look who's talking,' but I would reply, 'I'm a boy and you're a girl." To this, both Kim Shin Young and announcer Gu Eun Young retorted, "Why does gender matter in this situation? So girls have to be skinny and boys can be..." Taken aback by their remarks, Shindong quickly explained, "I'm just saying. Honestly, I would want the person that I love to be more pretty or more handsome." And I get that this was 7 years ago! People shouldn't be defined by one mistake. We all make mistakes, We all change. But I think what people have noticed, is that he seems (even since then) to be really rude, Kinda comes across as arrogant on alot of his shows (or shows he appears on).

Jadewashere64 anicsi • Wednesday, February 8, 2017

Omg. sorry that lining is awful. Akps website changed the way I had. Eww. I hope you can still read it. sorry

Jadewashere64 anicsi • Wednesday, February 8, 2017

And believe me. I don't hate suju. I like some sujus songs. I also, don't really hate Shindong (Mostly, because I don't know enough about him). But I can see why people would be angry at him. (Though, some are pretty harsh. and he probably doesn't deserve)

anicsi Jadewashere64 • Friday, February 10, 2017

I get that and I read it/did research on what he's done and said before commenting, but I still don't see the problem. And before someone (not you) comes along and says I'm fatphobic, I've been in serious relationships with a few people who are overweight. I still see what he said as a preference. I think what he said my have been taken a bit out of context and should probably be taken with a grain of salt. So many people jump onto idols when they say these things. The girl WAS asking for advice when she called in. Shindong was a bit harsh with what he said, I agree, but when you ask for advice you have to take the criticism that one may give you. I ask trainers at the gym for tips on getting better with my walking, and I was told several times to get my ass out of the wheelchair and to stop being lazy. Shindong was being honest about his opinion, and it's just that -- an opinion. Lol I'm re-reading what I wrote and it sounds like I'm angry, but I'm really not I promise. I had no trouble reading what you wrote! c: But I also think Shindong was right when he said "Don't start if you're only going to quit after a few days. Your body isn't the type to change with a diet." because it's true. You can't just change you body with a better diet. Calories in, calories out. You need to work out if you want to lose weight, not just diet.

Jadewashere64 anicsi • Friday, February 17, 2017

Yeah. I agree. (Also, don't worry. it doesn't sound angry to me. ^_^)