trogdorthe8th Mona_Vanderwaal • Wednesday, November 23, 2016

If you truly love her, then leave it alone. I get it, I totally miss her, but I'm glad she's not with the group right now. She has a serious mental disease that deserves both her as well as her loved ones full attention. If that means she isn't with the group for a long time, I'm totally happy about that- because it means that FINALLY she's getting the help and support that she both needs and deserves. I'm not attacking you by any means, and again, I totally understand missing her. But the whole situation gets me pretty heated, especially considering that the first time her disorder came up, they literally gave her a month to cope with it before sending her out for promotions. So it's no wonder she relapsed as badly as she did, and honestly considering the complexity of eating disorders, she probably never really got over it, just found better ways to hide it. We need to remember, the longer she's away, that means the more help she's getting and the more time she has to rest and focus on loving herself.