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Posted by hohliu7,545 pts Monday, July 1, 2019

Love or obsession? Ex-stalker fan of K-pop idol reveals why it is not worth it

Written by Kimberly Foo

Waiting outside their houses, chasing their cars and catching the same flights as idols are all in a day's work for these fans.

Stalker-fans, or known commonly as sasaeng fans (or 'private-life' fans in Korean), have always been a pest in the K-pop community.

Known for their disruptive tendencies, the behaviors of these fans have been cast into the spotlight again after they tried to call BTS member Jungkook on his phone during a live stream.

So what drives these fans to commit these bizarre acts?

INFATUATION LEADS TO OBSESSION

With idol culture becoming a big phenomenon in the region, K-pop has seen a resurgence in popularity. Many K-pop fans find themselves enchanted by the catchy music and captivating looks of these K-pop idols.

Though fans may first get infatuated with the idol, some may find themselves on a slippery slope towards obsession.

Recently, an ex-sasaeng revealed all about the life of a stalker-fan in an anonymous interview with Youtube channel, Korea Scouter TV.

She shared that she had not intended to become a sasaeng, and was not even interested in K-pop music in the first place.

But a chance encounter with a fan-taken video of a popular idol made her fall in love with him.

She started spiraling into the world of being a stalker-fan when she realized that merely listening to the songs could not satisfy her, and she craved for interaction.


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It was then that she met other fans who would chase the idols to restaurants, cafes and concerts that they would go to.

Their day-to-day schedules involved her waiting at cafes outside the idol's entertainment company and finding out where the celebrities would be filming at, just to catch a glimpse of her favourite idol.

She mentioned that she lived this life for about a year and a half, even taking a break from school just to focus on stalking.


WAKE UP CALL

Fortunately, it took a dating scandal that her idol was involved in for the fan to come to her senses.

While fans like her are capable of recognizing their own wrongdoings, entertainment companies have had to resort to taking strong action to deter stalker-fans, like blacklisting those who just won't stop.

Unfortunately, it is only when these fans end up doing something criminal that police are able to step in.


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Recently, SM Entertainment announced that a pair of sasaeng fans were arrested when they tried to break into EXO member Chanyeol's studio earlier this year.

The ex-sasaeng also mentioned that such acts would end up weighing heavily on the heart instead.

Ending off with a warning to anyone who thought about being an obsessed fan, she said, "No matter how much money you spend following that person, nothing changes."

"What doesn't work, will never work."

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    joanner223,350 pts Monday, July 1, 2019 3
    Monday, July 1, 2019

    “No matter how much money you spend following that person, nothing changes.“ Well said.

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    hohliu7,545 pts Monday, July 1, 2019 4
    Monday, July 1, 2019

    Addiction and obsession is a very scary cycle to fall in.... Once you are trap in this cycle, you forgot what reality is. It is increasingly higher rates of youngsters falling into this trap. Often it is down to loneliness and coming from smaller family households.

    Their idols become their obsession , mental and emotional support. but are the young kids really to be blamed 100%. I am am really not sure, I find the aggressive and marketing tactics used by managements company to Brand, Package, Style, Sell their artist very aggressive. They are not just selling songs, they are practically selling their artist to full fill the dreams of the fans and fit in to the fan's ideal Prince.

    Such obsession bring in lots of revenue selling more then albums. The agency are selling a dream and IDOL.

    What does IDOL mean? It is a Being that people want to worship. That is the real meaning to the term. And many of these Groups are packaged and groom to be IDOLS.

    And the young fans, lonely fans are all victims in this marketing tactics.

    Why just blame the sasaeng? They are likely fans with weaker mental state and gets caught up in these trap easily. The fuel is added to feel the obsession. More responsibilities needs to be shared by the creators too.

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