Would you date a man who is bald or has hair loss? How important is a full head of hair to you?

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Would you date a man who is bald or has hair loss?

  1. I would not date a bald man or a man with hair loss

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  2. I would not date a bald man but I would date a man with some hair

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  3. I would date a bald man or a man with hair loss

    48.4%
  1. Zuko1

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    Be honest, would you date a man who is bald or has hair loss?

    How important is a full head of hair to you?

    Bonus Questions:
    Would you want them to keep their hair like this, if they are experiencing loss of hair?

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    Or would you prefer it, if they shaved it all off?
     
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    No, lol.

    If my husband starts losing his hair, I'll just have to live with it.

    But, I love men with good hair.

    Edit: And it depends on how they look bald if they do have hair loss. I'd prefer if they shaved it all off, but if their head is shaped wonky, might just be better to leave it.
     
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    very interesting question

    i dont expect a lot of "yes"s as far as physical attraction goes
     
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    i wondered for a while but still cant answer this question
     
  5. Zuko1

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    I like your honesty!

    "Head is shaped Wonky".:cryingr:

    I know what you mean though about the head shape. Some men look good bald.

    Thanks! Yes, so many people see hair as a must and people are made fun when they experience baldness.

    I appreciate you thinking hard about this question.
     
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    well its all in the genes no one can help it

    just got to make up with it by being the most awesome person ever or find someone who prefers bald ( i know a lot of people do )
     
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    yeah,I think I would

    I don't think that should be something crucial when choosing your partner,most men look fine bald anyways

    And yes,a completely bald head looks much better than having very little,thin hair
     
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  8. Zuko1

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    Not sure it's all genetics. ;)



    I agree that a completely bald head looks better. I think some of them may have some pride left in keeping the last few strands but I can't fault them as it's their own head.
     
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    No. I love my bf's hair and I think it looks very good when it's a little long for a guy too. Good hair is very important look wise. If my bf started losing hair when he's older I wouldn't dump him though ofc. But if I was single I probably wouldn't date a guy that was having hair loss.

    For 2nd question, it's better to be bald instead of having that little hair imo

    I know it's an insecurity for a lot of men, but remember that a lot of people that find bald men very attractive. I know some that love it so there will always be many that think it's a turn-on as well.
     
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    I dont think it's a dealbreaker. Some guys still look great bald. But if they're losing hair very visibly, I think it looks better to just shave it than keep what little you have.
     
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    I really appreciate your honesty. Now, you stated that if your BF started losing his hair, you would stay. However, if you were single, you would never gave your current BF a chance.:( Lol, brutal honesty.

    I agree that it's better to be bald and accept the loss. I would shave my whole head if I was losing hair. Hopefully, it doesn't happen to me though as I like my hair.

    Cool. So you would still look for other physical characteristics as well as other qualities and not just reject them outright.
     
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    If he's awesome and everything else just fits me and we get along so well, I'll look over it.

    My sister's boyfriend is bald and he's very good looking
     
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    So you do agree that it's not really an attractive trait to be bald. I can see that, as hair does enhance someone's looks.

    Glad it's not a deal-breaker for you and you would still give them a chance.
     
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    I'm not one to be swayed by physical appearance in general so it wouldnt matter either way, guy could have hair like rapunzel or have a shiny dome, as long as I'm attracted to who they are as a person ... Although that's another mission in itself.
     
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    I will admit I prefer hair. I've even always liked guys with longer hair. But (probably- not thinking too hard about it right now) no physical features (or other features) would put me off if we just got along really well and he was a good guy. TBH I don't think my ex was hot at all (and he was also physically impaired) and I still dated him because we got along (and when I was in love, I thought he was attractive too anyway).
     
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    yeah that sounds bad. Obviously other qualities are a million times more important. I'd like to think I would date him either way if we got to talking and I think my bf would look good anyway. But when it comes to first impression I wouldn't be as attracted in the beginning as if he had his hair, maybe that's a better way of putting it. I rarely find bald men attractive but there will be exceptions, so I guess just saying no never isn't true, just that I prefer hair a lot more
     
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    Yes, I am dating a bald man
    10/10 recommend

    and after seeing his pictures before he started balding I am 100% I wouldn't have dated him if he still had hair
    he is not the most stylish creature talking about hair, so, he benfits from baldness
     
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    I'd probably still reject them but it wouldn't be because of their hair. Or well the lack of it. Especially since they could have other attributes that make them attractive. Or just be blessed enough to be appealing even without hair. I think if I were to date someone then our connection would be most important. Physical attraction is also somewhat important but if we don't mesh well with each other, I don't really see a point in it.
     
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    ....Now that I am reading most of the answers... specially for the single ones....

    You have no idea who you will end up with

    I would constantly say that I didn't care about any attribute in a man EXCEPT he had hair
    I ended up with a bald guy... and it wasnt difficult, there wans't a part of me conflicted over the fact he was bald. I liked him and that was it


    of course you can have your crush and your "ideal man" and what not, but at the end of the day... eeeh, love and even attraction worl in weird ways lol

    ....but I do know people who had been dumped for getting bald, it was brutal
     
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    I'd give almost anyone a chance if their personality was good enough, and if they had basic hygiene (no greasy ass matted hair pls)
     
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