when someone keeps ignoring you for no reason...

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by V4ever, Dec 3, 2019.

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what do you do?

  1. keep pestering them with comments

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  2. decide it's not worthwhile

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  3. make a poll like this so people can give suggestions

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  4. start getting mad at them

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  5. feel like ripping their hair

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  1. V4ever

    V4ever ~ The Stubborn Bean ~

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    what do you do?
     
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  2. Emileh

    Emileh In Love with Kim Woobin

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    move on with your life
     
  3. dokyeomon

    dokyeomon Married to @mixtapeskz
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    your loss beeeech
     
  4. Burrito

    Burrito Og Pimp

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    ignore them back and throw them down the stairs
     
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    njsjyghsjmthjk Married to @MassiveKpopFan
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    They're not worth it.
     
  6. V4ever

    V4ever ~ The Stubborn Bean ~

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    leave it to burrito!! :angryr:
     
  7. Burrito

    Burrito Og Pimp

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    exactly.
     
  8. chuusaintyves

    chuusaintyves Leader

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    throw a chair at them (jk) (or is it jk??!)
     
  9. Pixels

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    Try to have a serious conversation and ask them whats up to see if something happened that youre unaware of. If theyre still ignoring you then let them. Cant force people to do things and you deserve to have friends and people in your life that wants to be with you and put effort into the relationship.
     
  10. V4ever

    V4ever ~ The Stubborn Bean ~

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    no JK. lmao
     
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  11. Patatosaurus

    Patatosaurus Newbie

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    I ignore them back and I'm pooping in front of their doors
     
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    LastResort318 Barbie&Ken♡
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    Eat a strawberry and move on.
     
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    soapycolors Married to @Cherries_Bombed
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    i honestly don't really do anything, i'll leave them a few messages of support at most.

    (imo) i think if some days/weeks have passed it's good to start distancing yourself too, since they'll be easier to let go of if they decide to never reciprocate.


    also i don't know if you made this thread because you feel someone might be ignoring you, but if you are please don't take it too harshly.
    i can promise you it's their loss, not yours.
    i hope you get better soon :loverr3:
     
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    kujaku Newbie

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    Wow, a lot of people suggesting you should just ignore them back and get over it. Hmm.

    Well, it depends really. What is your relationship with the person that's ignoring you? Has this happened before? Do you think they have a reason to ignore you? Was it all of a sudden? Are they active on social media?

    There are a lot of questions that need to be answered before deciding what to do. If they are someone that did this before frequently, then by all means don't bother, but if it's someone you're close with and this is unexpected, ask them if everything is okay, chances are something is definitely not okay. Might not even be something too serious, but you never know.
     
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  15. V4ever

    V4ever ~ The Stubborn Bean ~

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    i don't know if i've said something that they thought was rude, but i have no idea why they started ignoring me. i sent them a message, but they ignored it. i can see when they're on here and stuff that we all can see, and they just acted as though my message was nothing. i know it got through to them, because we've talked in the past. I don't know. i probably should just let it go and move on... but i just really don't want to suddenly cut off knowing them on a bad note.
    thank you! i'll try not to let it bother me. it just really bugs me when i don't know what i did wrong.
     
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    soapycolors Married to @Cherries_Bombed
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    i understand the frustration you're feeling.

    i know it may be hard right now, but i can promise you no matter what happens, time will heal.

    please don't worry too much, and do something to take your mind off it if you can :loverr3:
     
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  17. V4ever

    V4ever ~ The Stubborn Bean ~

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    <3
     
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