What does it say when only older men are attracted to you???

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  1. Blaenavon9

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    All boys my age seem to think of me only as "one of the boys" and always only want my advice, istg

    But like men 35 and up-ish, they always to want to get with me?? Im 24 so that doesnt seem so weird ig (but it was still the case when i was 20).

    And always in like, a not typically flirtation-appropriate setting? Does this mean nobody will want to marry me (not that i bothered)
     
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    Theyre hot at that age arent they
    But the fact that most of them are married kind of makes me not want to
     
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    I'm the same way except it is NOT a good thing for me as I'm 15. Boys at school call me ugly or just ignore me but grownups (thinking i'm a grownup in their defence) lowkey flirt with me until I tell them my age it's super uncomfortable and annoying
     
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    Its called having a chance to snatch a suga daddy
    also u are 24? I thought u are like 14 bc u r cute :oops:
     
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    Literally. Most of men I find attractive are 30 and older. Sometimes muuuuch older.. *cough*KeanuReeves55*cough*JoaquinPhoenix44*cough*

    But if they're married.. that's just.. no.
     
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    Omg be careful
    Some of those shits can be overbearing, or worse
     
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    Off by a DECADE????

    :(

    Yeah im 24 and not recently 24

    And well about the sugar daddy thing, know it sounds b***ss but im too much of a an idealist i guess
     
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    Ikr, dont date married men. I hate men who dont respect women
     
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    Maybe you look older than you are or you have a mature vibe
    I had the same case in school where none of the boys in my class were that interested in me but guys in their end 20s/30s seemed to like me
     
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    omg i feel this but vice versa

    a lot of people think i'm like 14 & i have to be like um i'm an adult..
    ig treated like/ppl thinking im a kid isn't always a bad thing tho since it's let me get out of things/i was let off the hook sometimes
     
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    Well it would say two things... Either they think your their age or they think your younger between the 18-25 bracket.. 35+ men and that whole Mid life crisis crap they want someone young and pretty to play with sort of thing makes them feel young. Also the possibility you may look cute and naive or in some cases docile...
    I get the cute and naive looking alot at first glance but when they start talking to me they usually realise they fucked up, honey trap succubus really.. Lol

    Recently I've been attracting older 40+ but most of them look a little younger, all of them approached me with the idea that I was younger between 18-22..(which is a little weird if you think too deep about it) when I bring up I'm 30 they kinda give me a surprised yet relieved response... Which in its self is dodgy. Lol
    I attract younger also cause I look younger....
     
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    Hard nut to crack why men are attracted to younger women. Theory I agree with is men are hardwired to be attracted to most fertile women.

    Why women in return are attracted to older men. Still is rooted women seeking men who can best support their family. Just so happens older men have more resources.

    Consider younger men who after a few years will become better support. Young Families don't need to start off in Mansions.
     
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    dude same : (
     
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    Yea I attract older dudes too, in my case I'm not comfortable with it cause I know I look younger than I am so I know their intentions are shady. I tend to like older men but ya know I want them to like me cause they like me not cause they cradle robbers..
     
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    Men 35+ want to get with everyone. ESPECIALLY someone younger
    anyone younger
     
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    I attract older dudes and I dislike it. I'm not attracted to older men at all
     
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