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ToppDogg Hansol comes out as Asexual

Discussion in 'K-POP' started by Lubby00, Aug 19, 2017.

  1. Lubby00

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    Translation: (cr. Sky prince on Youtube)

    "I've been thinking a lot.. & I'm Asexual. Asexual. I don't like anyone, everybody, I just like myself. I'll probably never get married laughs I just like my friends & my family."

     
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    YES !!!!!!!!!!!!

    I love this representation. I'm in tears
     
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  3. Eithra

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    Good for him.
     
  4. TzuyuGirl

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    why do we need to know his sexuality/Asexuality through , I feel like this is private matter should not be discussed to public .
     
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  5. KoShinwon

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    because others want to feel like they aren't alone and by knowing that this guy, this celebrity whom they may even like and follow as a fan, is asexual they might just feel a little more at home in the world

    and it's not as if it's intrusive speculation like in most cases, he talked about it himself
     
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    He discussed it in a public live so, what's the problem? It's not like people are outing him. That would be wrong. He outed himself.
     
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    I love him so much, and I'm so happy he felt comfortable enough to talk about this. I hope he has a good system of support around him, but he is already looking much healthier and (dare I say it) a little happier than he was a few weeks ago!
     
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    Sis, idols reveal all sorts of useless details about eachother and themselves for no reason lol (Still remember the period of time where exo members liked telling concert audiences the colour of other members' underwear lol)

    But something like this can actually be important to people, coz representation for minorities can help people within those minorities :)
     
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    YESSSS HONEY.
    R E P R E S E N T
    he was in such a bad state a while ago.. i hope he's doing better now.
     
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    Glad he's feeling better:)
     
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    OH MY GOD :waterr::waterr::waterr:
     
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    Wow,that's actually brave of him.. Can somebody tell me whatwhat else he was saying? I'm really curious because I think he's giving more explanations?
     
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    He is so precious. He is the reason i dtarted stanning toppdogg <3
     
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    OMG YES REPRESENT

    NOW THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY CAN FINALLY FEEL REPRESENTED
     
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    *when u been a topp dogg stan for like a long ass time and finally...either new people are recognising them because of this....or other already fans are coming outta the shadows...either way i now have people to fanboy over topp dogg and hansol with so im happy*
     
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    He said that he doesn't want to get married and that he might be asexual.And that he's thought about this for a long time.
     
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    I saw a picture of him smiling the other day, so maybe things are starting to get better for him. I sure hope so, I worry a lot about him. He's always been a little fragile and I just feel so protective of him. I hope he goes back to dancing and puts back up his dancing videos.

    One of the things I love about Hansol is that he's always been so honest and unapologetic about who he is. I've never seen him try to maintain an idol image. He isn't rude to fans, but he isn't fake either. If he feels asexual at this point in his life, I admire the fact that he's comfortable enough to share that with anyone interested. I was too for most of my 20's, so I can relate. In my case things changed when I approached my 30's, so they may with him as well. Or they may not. It doesn't matter, so long as he's happy.

    (BTW, he looks like a whole different person with that haircut and glasses! What a difference styling can make.)
     
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    This is actually amazing news and I'm so proud of him and his confidence I wasn't a full fan but I watched their interviews and all and Hansol took my attention most of the time. So hearing about this I feel like a proud sibling or something lol and I'm glad he's happier and sending out positive vibes his way!
     
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    I was literally just thinking I hope he doesn't get hate if this changes - I mean people change, sexuality is a very fluid thing, I hope this confession doesn't end up being a burden for him.
     
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    Translation: (cr. Sky prince on Youtube)

    "I've been thinking a lot.. & I'm Asexual. Asexual. I don't like anyone, everybody, I just like myself. I'll probably never get married laughs I just like my friends & my family."

     

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