To all immature fans

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  1. Deeery

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    I was thinking about it lately. How, once you turn your back on someone, in case you'll be in need, the people you turned your back on before are going to do the same thing to you. I mean we all know that it happens a lot. Be respectful and nice to people and they will be the same to you. Otherwise you are left with nothing. It's simple, right?

    That's why, immature part of all fandoms, especially popular ones, this thing is dedicated to you. I'm not going to judge you or tell you what you should do because you do you and you will be the one responsible for your actions and behaviour.

    Let me explain it to you. Your favourite group might be at their peak now but it's not going to last forever. It never does. Now you feel like your fandom and bias group are untouchable, no one can reach them or stop them. The reality however is going to be different. They are untouchable NOW but it's going to change sooner than later. Someone younger, someone prettier, someone more talented is going to come and change everything. Entertainment industry is a non stoping competition and rivalry. Your favourite group will stop being as popular as it is now and who knows, maybe you will leave their fanbase too. But in case you don't, what are you going to do? Cry? Complain? It would be nice to have someone with similar experiences that would listen to your complains and comfort you, I know. Now it might sound stupid to you, you might feel like you don't need anyone but your fandom because only this fandom is going to understand you. But that's now. Believe me, once your favourite group's peak will end and they will reach their downfall, it's going to be horrible and painful watching how someone you supported for years is being forgoten by all people that used to talk about them non stop.

    So is it really worth it to be so full of yourself, so mean to other artists, repeatedly downgrading them and assuming they are irrelevant because your favourite group is better? Is it really better to fight with everyone that doesn't agree with you, to fight for non important achievements and records? No one is going to remember about those achievements, believe me, but no one's going to forget about all fanwars you caused and all mean things you said. People tends to remember only bad things after all.

    Stay humble, don't become toxic and remember to respect others and their opinion. Don't be mean or savage because it will bring you nowhere. Or in the end, when your idols will become as irrelevant as groups you used to attack, you will be left all alone without anyone near to comfort you.

    And one more thing. Kpop is only music genre. It's not worth it to make enemies because of just one stupid music genre.

    Thanks for listening to my talk
     
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    Agreed <3
     
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    Well said, and agreed!!
     
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    Thank you <3

    Thanks a lot!
     
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    Agree 100%
     
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    I am a newish fan. Thanks for the advice - it really helps!!:excitedr::giftr:
     
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    Best ted-talk ever!
    "Stay humble, don't become toxic and remember to respect others and their opinion. Don't be mean or savage because it will bring you nowhere. Or in the end, when your idols will become as irrelevant as groups you used to attack, you will be left all alone without anyone near to comfort you." -@Deeery
     
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    Glad I could help! I hope you will find kpop community enjoyable despite this toxicity that we are still trying to get rid of
     
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    Thank you! I'm really glad people appreciated my talk and although I doubt it will change immature fans' behaviour it still makes me happy that I'm not alone here and there are people that share the same opinion as me in this case.
     
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    Agree!!! Amazingly said :)
     
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    Thank you a lot!
     
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    I agree. :yesr::loverr3:
     
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    Well said:yesr:.Fanwars are the worst.We should just enjoy good music.
     
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    Thank you and I agree with you. Kpop community would be such a nice place if only we, kpop fans, would stop arguing over everything.
     
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    Desu to Fahnnwahhhs !!!
     
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    Stream KTL to end fanwars.
    Blackpink is the future.
     
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    Agreed!
    Im not toxic, i believe. But even the peaceful fans become competitive. In other words, people can be insecure but arent necessirily argumentative. When Exo's records were slowly getting broken, it was like a slap on my face. And thats when Exo l were/are slowly calming down.
    Fans really take their bias groups acheivements for granted. Bigbang and Snsd, one of the most succesful groups of all time had a lot of insecure fans who fought with 3rd gen fans because their records were being broken and newer groups such as twice and bts were gaining momentum. Now some onces and armys believe that bts twice are untouchable and will never be beaten. Its a big mistake on these fandoms parts.

    Edit: its a big mistake on every top groups fandoms, part actually.
     
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    You are one of the very few wise & intelligent users I've seen here. Everyone should learn from you!
    You have my respect.
     
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    You have respect as well.
    When I'm done half of this thread will still exist.
    I hope they remember you.
     
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    Um... I didn't understand.
     

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