There are some things, that are "romantic" in fiction but isn't in real life. These happen in freaking songs too. For example: The jealous guy, who doesn't want the girl to talk to other guys, because the other guys want to date her. (I understand that some people would find that romantic and be like "Awww, he loves her so much." This is actually happens in unhealthy relationships.) Commiting suicide after the signicant other dies. (I don't know how many find it romantic, but this happens in Romeo&Juliet (The play, that some people find romantic.) I have also once seen a vocaloid fanvideo where the girl dies in the beginning and the boy gets sad and commits suicide just to be with her in the afterlife. "Aww, they are together in heaven." That is not romantic, that is just very sad.) anything that is actually freaking abuse and happens in unhealthy relationships. (I once made a "romantic" scene, where the love interest gets jealous (there it is again) and starts beating her up, but that is okay because he kisses her in the end of the scene /sarcasm. I really regret writing that scene) That one scene in Fault In Our Stars ( I have not read that book or seen the movie, but I know that there is a scene, where Hazel and Augustus kiss in Anne Frank's house and some people don't like that scene, because that place is not romantic. Even though I saw a Youtube comment that said "Anne Frank would actually have liked seeing a couple kissing in her house." I don't know about that....) I saw one Facebook post, where someone posted a scene from a movie or TV series or I don't know, where this one man is giving a woman a bath, and the caption or something is like: "Relationship goals" or "I want a guy like that.", I can't remember exactly. This picture just reminded me of one of my family members, who can't take a bath by himself, so someone has to wash him. Well, if you are a person who can take a bath without any help, then you don't need a man like that. What other examples?