For as long as I can remember I've never confined myself to one group/artist only. Of course there's nothing wrong with dedicating yourself to only one group, I just couldn't understand how people manage to focus on only one artist when there's so many interesting performers around. But that was okay, after all there's a chance that people who like only one group simply didn't found any other artist enjoyable enough to stan them. I completely get that and I've never, not even once tried to attack anyone who focused on supporting only one group. After all it's their choice. Maybe in the future they will find themselfs liking other artists as well. Who knows? But then can't it work both ways? I'm not shading you for supporting only one artist or/and belonging to only one fandom. I'm not judging you for it. So can you please just do me a favor and mind your own business as well? Can you not judge me for being able to like more than one group and enjoying music just like I'm supposed to? You, no matter how many times you will tell yourself otherwise, aren't any better fan than those who aren't limiting themselfs to one group only. We are all the same. If I feel like I want to be both EXO-L, ARMY and whoever else I want too it's my fucking business and you have no say whether I'm a real fan or not. If I want to be a part of both fandoms, if I want to support both groups - I will. What's the point with saying you aren't claiming a multi like me? Who even are you to decide whether I can belong to a fandom or not? Seriously it's just so messed up how kpop fandoms became smth similar to a cult and what's even worse is how people are proud of it. Like what's there to be proud of? Don't get me wrong. I have nothing against fans who support only one group. I don't understand it but I'm not judging them for what they do. It's their business. But it's the same for me. I might be a multi but it's my business. I'm not doing any harm for liking more than one artist so I would be grateful if some of you could stop treating me and every multi for that matter as if we are someone less worthy than you. Thank you.