Mental Health Thread ♡

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  1. kodoku

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    maybe making a change would freshen things up for you? trying something new, changing your appearance or surroundings..
     
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    Had a minor mental breakdown today, feels like I will loose it very soon. This is not my year, everything goes against me and I can't handle it anymore.
     
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    I am sorry you are sad all the time. Try to do something a bit different each day. Allow yourself to eat different foods ( I know you care about calories so eat something different within that calorie range so you don't become upset for going over). Go to a different place for leisure. I wish there was something we could help you with. If you ever need to talk, I'm here. :yesr:
     
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    I'm sorry to hear that :(( try to remember the times in the past when you were struggling and how you've overcome it all, every sigle bad day so far.. and you'll do it again, stay strong <3
     
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    Thank you. Today or to be more exact this year have been horrible for me I don't know how much more I can take. Everything goes wrong right now.
     
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    I'm not ugly, I'm just pre-debut
    my boyfriend I've had for a while ended up cheating on me with multiple girls
    even pursuing to date one, and she even was FRIENDS with me,
    he mentally/verbally abused me, and now that we aren't together
    he is CONTINUING to do things without consent even when I'm asking so nicely.
    he said all the time "I'm not a cheater" "I'd never cheat" "Trust me"
    and I finally broke those walls down and became vulnerable again,
    just to have him break my heart like my past relationships.
    I never have malicious intent and I'm always saying things like,

    "This is my fault & I'll take accountability, my apologies."
    but people always find a way to take advantage of my apologetic complex,
    and then play the victim so easily. I've been cheated on in almost all my relationships,
    or told I wasn't enough, or both. At this point people are telling me,

    "you're just choosing the wrong people" wait... So you get mad at me for blaming myself...
    but then you are basically saying its my fault for dating the wrong/pursuing the wrong people?
    No one should ever tell someone who got cheated on that THEY chose the wrong person,
    its almost validating it by being like, well now lets turn it onto you, and as a pansexual,

    I have dated all kinds of people, what gets me to like them is their personality,
    and all of them are VERY different, some are introverted and emotional,
    some are extraverted but blablabla, but at the end of the day,
    very different people, so I won't have the "you have a type" bs.

    well thats it.
    this is my rant.
    we just ended this week
    :)
     
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    Good riddance girlie, you don't need that. You can do so much better, you deserve so much better ♥️
     
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    My dear Blacky is gone and I really want to be dead now.
     
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    I'm not ugly, I'm just pre-debut
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    its just hard..
     
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    I'm so sorry hun

    I know cutie, I know... You will be ok, I promise <3
     
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    My life has been permeated by a sense of longing.
    I want to enjoy things but I'm very disciplined
     
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    I messed up my sleep pattern so I got irritated and anxious. Everyone, sleep well if you can, and sleep on time, because being sleep-deprived can result in an unbalanced mental state.
     
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    Longing is such a horrible feeling. I'm sorry to hear you are feeling that way.
    Try to allow yourself to enjoy things being disciplined is good, but enjoying things is important as well.


    This is very true. Sleep is extremely important for your physical and mental wellbeing.
    I hope you can get your sleep pattern back to normal soon.
     
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    Preaching to the choir on this one :p
     
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    I'm trying to improve and trying to be strong after losing my dear Blacky, it has been tough but today I'm actually trying to stand up again.

    I hope you all manage to overcome your difficulties whatever they're about. I've been in a dark spot since July but, losing my lovely dog made me realize many things.

    Anyways, I wish you all the best, I hope you all manage to beat the issues weakening your mood; stay strong and never give up.

    We may momentarily crumble down, but remember there's always a reason to fight back.

    <3
    We all deserve to be happy, so let's try our best to be so.
     
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    I hope the longing pushes you in the right direction to achieve what you wish for <3

    Ah my insomnia.. Let's all try to sleep in the best way we can :)

    Thanks hun, stay strong and know I'm proud of you ~~
     
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    Why did you goo why did I fight for you but you didnt fight for me.

    It's just hard I hate how I get emotionally involved with people I just cant help it I really really care and I love easily. And I'm just hurt. But nobody cares. Its whatever tho I just cant wait for it to be over you just cant trust anyone with your heart dont give it away really just dont.

    And I cant even feel hatred to help forget cause I cant hate someone I love even if I try. I feel hated and forgotten honestly but how come I can't feel this way. I dont think right cause I get too attached but it's okay it's a pain that I'll learn from and use as motivation, but at the end of the day I just know I will never stop caring about you. I love you so much. But it will all be better one day.. one sweet summer day, hopefully for both of us.
     
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    I'm sorry it's like this and that you're feeling this way. I pray you feel better soon, stay strong <3
     
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    every time I go to my mom, it results in her with an attitude that tells me I don't pay bills, I don't have a mortgage, why am I so anxious, etc

    I feel like I have no one to talk to, that I'm a failure, I'll never get a full time job with benefits, and I should just die

    I have nothing to give and I feel like such complete shit. I'm so exhausted and I have like no appetite.

    Sigh.
     
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    I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It's hard when you're struggling and not finding support from the people you really need it from.

    I'm always here for you if you need me, either here or in DMs. You're not a failure and you will find a job. Please don't die. You've got so much to live for, even if it doesn't seem like it right now.

    You've go so much to give and are an awesome person. I hope one day soon you see how wonderful you are.:loverr3:
     
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