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  1. chaeyoungsluvr

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    Is being pansexual valid? My friends that are in the lgbtq+ say that it’s not and I don’t know how to feel because I think I’m pan, I’m scared to tell them that I am pan bcs I’m scared that they will make me feel bad or just tell me I’m invalid which has kinda happened before :”(
     
  2. miniminhee

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    Being pan is valid :mad: I identified as pan for a while before realizing the label just wasn't for me, still not sure if I am or not. Being pan is so valid and anyone who says otherwise, I'll bite them *chomp chomp*
     
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    don't worry, I've identified as pan for years and I totally get how you feel. There's a lot of discrimination against pansexuality both within the community and out, just know that you're not alone. it's 100% a valid sexuality and anyone who says otherwise it just wrong. I know it can be scary, so if you have any questions or you need to rant to someone, I'm here and I understand how you feel~
     
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    this makes me feel so much better oml I wanna cry now
     
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    We're all for visibility of all identities!
     
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    We do not stan that mentality.
     
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    absolutely. Please know that there is a lot of gatekeeping in the lgbtq community too. What matters and should always matter is how you feel about yourself. And you know how you do which is awesome. Lots of love.
     
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    A year ago I came out as bisexual to my mom but sadly she homophobic and denied me for who i was, and she even threatened me.

    I'm too scared to come out anymore to the rest of my family because im scared of their reactions but over where I live, I'm not attracted to boys at all and I'm only attracted to some of the girls. (I even had a crush on one of my friends who was a girl in 6th grade.) I would probably consider myself mostly lesbian since my main attraction to girls. But since i'm only romantically (not sexually) attracted to some male kpop idols and I'm also attracted to female idols I would have to go with bisexual but on the gayer side which is what I am :)
     
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    pansexuality is totally valid. I will bark at whoever says yall aren't valid <3
     
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    How gay are you on the kinsey scale lol (im a 5 out of 6)
    5.png
     
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    Tbh, I have no idea. I just like people, so I find it hard to like categorize it? Like i see someone i like i'm just like poggers dude, but i can't describe it
     
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    tf is a poggers
     
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    :sweatr:The meme “poggers” when used in a sentence, or more commonly, used in twitch chat by a viewer, means “nice” “cool” “good work” among others.
     
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    Kinsey scale does not work for asexual folkx.
    or someone like me.

    This is something i realised while thinking about the kinsey scale. I know a lot of you are young so maybe you won't be able to relate maybe or maybe you would, who knows.. I have been in a het relationship before. But as i get older, I am tending towards no attraction towards anyone? The people I get attracted to are gender ambiguous folx, but mostly women who tend to dress in a gender ambiguous way (I do that too) and men who do not mind being "feminine". I like women but on a platonic level. The urge to be physically be with someone has also subsided- it is a lot of work, it seems like chore- though it does not mean i dont get attracted to someone, but that attraction is usually short lived. I already get a lot of support from my female friendships (i don't have close male friends, i feel more comfortable with women) and as for physical needs, we have things, right? I like being on my own and spending time, money and energy on me, on my friends and family. I used to be enthusiastic about having a partner back when i was younger but no longer. I don't think the kinsey scale or any label can help identify this. it is a mix of asexuality and aromantic and at times i feel both, so neither?

    tldr: sexuality is a spectrum and no scale or label can tell you who you are, even though finding a label is reassuring, being fluid is too. <3
     
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    Today is National Coming Out day!
     
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    I have a crush on this girl and I hate it
     
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    is she straight?
     
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    No she's gay but I have negative chance
     
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