Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by Eziio, Feb 14, 2017.
I am non-binary/agender and I use she/her and they/them pronouns. I'm also thinking about using he/him pronouns but I'm not sure yet.
I'm attracted to women.
Hopefully this thread eventually gets pinned
I hope so too I just asked for it to get pinned in the ask a staff member thread. I think it's a really good idea
Speaking as #Jrida for this topic.
You're missing 1.
I'm a demisexual in real life. (I do not feel sexual attraction to a person unless I have a very deep emotional connection to them)
When I went to talk to a psychologist about my lack of interest towards sex he made me do a test and I got that result. I can still feel sexual arousal but it's honestly hard to get to that point.
I think people misunderstand my love for Jimin as sexual love, but honestly I admire him a lot and find him adorable. I can still appreciate a beautiful human, but I do not have any 'sexual fantasies' or get off things like that even though I'm quite emotionally invested in him. I do not know how much I need to be emotionally invested in someone to be sexually aroused though...
I included demisexuality under asexuality.
Serious question, is there a name for someone who don't know or can't define who or what gender they are attracted to ?
There's quoisexual but that's more of an asexual thing for people who don't know if they experience sexual attraction or not.
Heterosexual male myself.. But I am a huge supporter of the LGBTQA+ community. My bestfriend of 20+ years is a lesbian and I was the first person that she came out to and over the years I learnt more about the community as I went through the steps of supporting my bestfriend and over time our social group started to include a lot of people who identified as gay and lesbian.
One of the quickest ways to anger me is to use a homophobic term as I believe in equal rights and love for everyone regardless of sexuality or gender and that no one should be discriminated against just because of who they love.
I am also going through a very interesting situation right now as a parent. In the second half of last year my eldest daughter started identifying herself as a lesbian. This surprised me and I questioned myself as to whether me and my bestfriend had a influence on her and whether they could one day change as she's still very young. But I've read cases of children her age knowing their sexuality/gender and she seems very adamant that she is indeed a lesbian. My friend was the first person that she spoke to because she was worried about how I would react to it because we have always shared a close relationship (she regards me as her entire world) and she didn't want me to be angry. And I don't think I've ever seen her happier than when I hugged and kissed her and told her that I will always be proud of her and that my love wouldn't change regardless of who she loved.
Questioning is one aswell
Awww that's so sweet, I'm so happy you accept and support the community fully
I'm a cisgender woman but I'm not sure if I'm bisexual, pansexual or polysexual.
Hope you figure it out
why are you excluding straights , you meanie~
Oops,will fix that lol
I would say that I am still questioning myself I guess ? And I refer as a she
edit: and cisgender !
I don't want to sound disrespectful. But i wanted to know, why do you need to talk about gender in a kpop forum