...where I don't have to pay extra for certain things? I first tried Tinder but it turns out that everybody there wants to just hook up & aren't looking for serious relationships. Then tried this site called Swirlr which is a site for interracial dating, and I thought it'd be perfect for me considering that I'm a mixed race girl w/ a racial preference (If you think I'm a fetisher IDC at this point anymore I like what I like, okay?), but I need to pay extra to see who liked me or sent me a message. I heard about match.com & OKCupid but I think those sites make you pay too.