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  1. Crazy_Dog

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    is ignoring someone a from of abuse


    tell me ur oopinioons
     
  2. Shellfish_Beach

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    Neglecting is, but not ignoring
     
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  3. Juanlag

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    Depending on the situation, but yes it can be.
     
  4. lighterxx

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    Is this person dependent on you? then can be, really depends on the situation.
     
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  5. qu33n

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    Neglect is abuse but generally ignoring someone I wouldn't consider abuse
     
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  6. Crazy_Dog

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    hmmm i seee
    how ?
    pobably
    hmmmmm isee
     
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  7. Juanlag

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    If a group of kids ignore other kid in their class for example, he can feel excluded and it would be basically as abuse imo.
     
  8. LAYNICORNINFIRES

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    if it's neglect, yes
    also depends on the situation
     
  9. Marksonforever_1

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    i would say no since well if they keep bugging you, messing with you and you avoid them and block them...then your kinda getting away from abuse? So ignoring is most likely finding a problem of the abuse?
     
  10. Crazy_Dog

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    i disagree
    it not the grroup of kids job to make the loner feel something special
    but rather it the loners job to open up n introduce himself
     
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  11. lighterxx

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    only emotionally or?
     
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  12. Crazy_Dog

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    care to elaborate
     
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  13. lighterxx

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    Does this person depend on you on emotional level or another thing? Like financial?
     
  14. reveluvs

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    it depends i think. Like if someone is ignoring u but theyve made it clear they dont want to talk to u then its not abusive. But if they keep going back n forth between ignoring u and talking to u (like theyre playing mind games) then it is abusive imo....
     
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    Depends on the situation! But yes it can be a form of abuse because it can hurt someone in more ways than 1!
     
  16. Crazy_Dog

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    do both

    im asking out of curosity
     
  17. Crazy_Dog

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    hmmmmmmmmmm i seee

    i seee
    but y is it abuse
     
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  18. jbeanbean

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    mmm... depends on the context?

    if someone's harassing you and they won't stop, you ignoring them would not be abuse, it would be defense

    if you're ignoring someone cus they pissed you off, I guess that could be passive aggressive? cold shoulder?

    & if you're ignoring someone cus you're depressed or have anxiety then hurting their feelings is unintentional and hard to explain to someone who might not understand
     
  19. MadFoxAnime

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    Because if that person loves you and Always talks to you and one day you just start ignoring them without telling them what they did wrong it could do really bad emotional damage on that person! And if you ignore them long enough they can get depressed and possible harm themselves or worse...
     
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  20. lighterxx

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    Emotional level, unless this is someone who is incapable of developing a social interaction or at the phrase for primary socialization (aka FAMILY) its neglect, otherwise just ignoring,

    If economically, and this case applies again with primary socialization, if they are unable to earn money themselves and/or in primary socialization era its neglect, not always a crime, but it still is. Otherwise ignore.
     
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