i need help my relationship is falling apart plsssss HeLp

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    so as u all know i have a bf and i love him very much...............

    so we were at a party a few days ago and we were their with some of his friends and one of his friends kinda caught my attention he was tall really handsome and idk i just completely fell for him and once i got to know him i fell for him more and wished i didn't have a bf and i know that's wrong but idk i couldn't stop thinking about him but here is where the problem comes in we got really drunk that night i ended up hanging out with him most of the night and he's my boyfriends best friend so my bf didnt think of it to much so like i said we got pretty drunk and stuff happened i don't remember much of it but i remember kissing him that night and sooooooo yea i think i might be in love again...........i hate myself for this but i can't help it and a day later we met up at a cafe and talked about it the thing is he has a gf but he said he really liked me and even asked me to be his side hoe and shit the thing is i love my bf but idk whats happening to me.......and i guess my bf found out somehow cause he's not responding to my messages and will not talk to me and seems really mad when i approach him i need help!
     
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    if the other guy has a gf, leave him. you have a bf that you've been dating for a while, don't dump him for someone you just met. Fix your relationship and start to appreciate your bf more.
     
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    reeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    he asked u to be a side hoe?
    damn he is not even offering a relationship?
     
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    who do you like more that is your answer to everything rn
    i would dump the guy with gf because you are way more than a side hoe like you deserve better
     
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    tbh we have talked a bit more since then and he said he would honestly dump his gf for me but idk i hate myself for even considering it..........
     
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    Someone who ask you to be his side hoe is not a good person and not worth considering.
    But sad to say you kinda dug your own grave there. Doing stuff in a party means a lot of people might've seen you and tell your bf. If you really loved him like you said, hope you can still work things out.
     
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    yea i guess but i don't know how to approach him now........
     
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    and tbh it could have been that because like i said i don't remember much only kissing him so i'm afraid it could have gone further
     
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    ik i just have to clear my mind i fell for his friend so hard it hurts tho
     
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    Lol kissing your bf's best friend is a big enough offense for me, without things go even further. I know I'll be very pissed if I'm your bf.
     
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    yea.................i hate myself so much rn
     
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    you are in a tough poition girlie.... I would say because he has a gf, you should let him go, and explain yourself to your bf. Your bf probably had the deepest feelings for you and is probably really sad and embarrsed with himself at the moment. As if he would give you a chance to explain yourself and if he says yes, then you can explain yourself, if he says no, i dont know what to say except that you probably made a mistake. Im so sorry and i hope your moods get lifted and everthing works out

    lots of love from a total stranger~
    sorry for misspells
     
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    i have asked him to talk but he always makes up an excuse to not talk to me we haven't talked for days now:waterr:and his friend keeps insisting and telling me he really likes me
     
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    do you love him more than the other guy?
     
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    ..................i srsly don't know anymore
     
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    what helped me was teling myslef who i thought i liked more. If it felt right, i went with my gut feeling and decided on that, not what other people thought. Try to be true to yourself.
     
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    but what if my gut feeling is wrong.............
     
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    follow your heart if it wrong then you will know and be sad for a little then you will get better but your gut is never wrong
     
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    should i try talking to my bf again ?
     
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    your gut feeling is what you intrnally decide and its usually correct, if you feel that it is wrong, then go with your other decision
    :)
     
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