How do you deal with rude neighbors

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  1. paletaemin

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    ugh. so i live in a perfect neighborhood... the people are nice, the scenery is great, no bad crime, no gangs, no shooting, good neighborhood... but then these black people moved in the place behind my house.... every single day, they go outside and blast super loud rap music for no reason. I think it's disturbing the peace. How do I make them stop???? & my other neighbors hate them too and think they are disruptive of our quiet community and bond within each other. I would say something but I don't want to get shot or something ...
     
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    Um..... first of all lol
    second of all call the police and say they are disturbing the peace. p sure they can at least get a ticket or something for it especially since you're saying your other neighbors agree
    third i dont think theyre gonna shoot you because you told them to turn off rap music
     
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    Arent u being a bit racist here tho?
     
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    I have neighbors who blast all kinds of music in my neighborhood and it doesn't bother me at all because I as well blast my music loud in my house, having a quiet neighborhood is too boring tbh. It also sounds like you are throwing out stereotypes like portraying that they will shoot you.
     
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    My neighbor comes over to my house almost every day for any thing. One day is to ask how to cook, another day is because he cut himself and want to put a Band-Aid (He has like 24-26 years wth), another day because his dog is sick and he did not know what to do. It's not a bad person, it's just a bit useless for everything.:confused:

    Call the police, they know what to do :)
     
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    one of my neighbors has parties EVERY SINGLE WEEKEND until like 3am. they start blasting their crappy music and starts shouting and stuff around 4pm or something. one night when i was trying to study for a subject i was failing they started to get really loud and noisy. A plastic cup even got thrown at my window and i got really really pissed so i wrote "SHUT THE FUCK UP OR I CALL THE POLICE" on a sheet of paper and taped it to my window.
    idk the music still played but it was definitely quieter lol.
     
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    Tough call. Since we only have your description to go by, we really don't know what is really going on.

    First.....don't start off being a dick.

    Could be this group is just having fun and don't realize they are being very disturbing. In that case, show some good will......donuts work, so do biscuits, so does being a nice person....and have a friendly talk. Offering the first olive branch sometimes works. I have sometimes become good friends with a group that had everyone else scared. You never know......

    On the other hand, they just might not give a shit, and are first class assholes themselves. Since you don't know for sure, you have to try at least once. If they tell you to go f'k off, or worse, then your options become very limited. Now you have license to be a dick. Call the police, or move.

    Sometimes you are misunderstanding.
    Sometimes your world goes to shit.
    Sometimes you can fight back.
    Sometimes you need to leave.

    You have to figure which one is which first. But yeah....the comment about getting shot is a bit racist since you haven't tried yet.
     
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    I would tell the council or police like everyone said. I had neighbours like that before but they were nice but they would always put songs out loud. I just wanted no sound coming in, I bet everyone in my neighbourhood thought that but no one said anything and they still continued doing it. I think people should realise that there are people living around.
     
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    EDIT: Nothing here move on :p
     
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    lol?
     
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    racism=valuing a race over another
    where is the racism in the OP? mentioning skin color doesn't=racist
    OP got banned tho :(
     
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    Oh lol I was confused why my reply didn't come up in chicken thread XD I shouldn't keep too many tabs open ^^;
     
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    How can you tell?
     
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    try going to their profile
     
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    I could be wrong, but I think you can disable viewing of your profile. I know some others that you can't see either.
     
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    I guess that's possible, but I've only seen options to hide your page and the only people who can view it are people you follow. Whatevs xD
    Edit: It says their profile is not available, while others who private their profiles it will say they limit who views their profile
     
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    I'm assuming you think all blacks act this way...
     
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    "Black family" "afraid to get shot"


    Thats just my point of view, but tbh i dont need to be told everything to make some conclusions.
     
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    Such a pain tho, I live in a apartment complex and my neighbors next door ALWAYS have their music at FULL BLAST, I remember one time that it was a fucking MONDAY at fucking 3:00 AM and they had their music loud as always, the only thing I did was that I camly went to knock their door, told them to stop their music since in that time I had to work and that if they didn't I would call the police, of course they told me to fuck off so I just went into their apartment and turned off the music myself and go back into my apartment, after that they didn't have their music loud anymore, in fact they stopped throwing parties and opted to go to another person's house
     
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