Do you tend to think the best or worst of people?

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    I tend to look for the good in people and I can sometimes trust people too easily if I go with my instincts.
     
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    I'm optimistic so I usually look for the good lol
     
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    I try to see the good in people
     
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    I always see the good things in people.
    I think I'm too naive sometimes, but I don't want to believe that people betray me.
    Even if I know that he/she did something bad, I always try to defend them, if it's not too bad of course.
     
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    Good, but over time I get to see their worse
     
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    its a equal range for me, with good there's bad.. i tend to take into account both, but one will usually outweigh the other.. which depends on the individual.
    although when i meet someone... there's nothing... no expectation at all.
     
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    Hmmm, idk tbh. I just go with the flow if that makes sense. I don't look for the good or bad. idk how to explain it, but like....ya
     
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    Well, That's a qualification for my job. To look at the best of people even when there is no/little hope at that. Sad life, but that's passion for me.
     
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    Honestly it depends on the idividual concerned and I don't think I especially try to look for either one. I don't really want to ignore the bad for the good or other way around. So both, kind of ?
     
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    Same.. But I automatically assume the best of people unless I actively switch it off - then I expect nothing. ;)
     
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    At first when i discover a group they're flawless
    After about a day I assume the worst so I won't be disappointed too much if they mess up
     
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