Do you tend to be different?

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  1. Wildwest85

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    The line between "be your self" and "be different" is kinda blurred.

    Which side do you think you are more on?

    How do your friends say about you in this?
     
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    I’m not very.. worried about being different so i guess be myself fits me better
    If i like something that’s the trend i don’t care and if i like something more “unique” i don’t care either
     
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    Probably both, since being myself apparently makes me different.
    I'm very introverted and dislike conflict. Most people say I'm a bit odd... even my mother says so. A classmate once said I was 'too nice' and that it made her want to hurt me. Which seriously scared me.
     
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    I don’t know myself
     
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    You shouldn't deliberately try to be different because that means to some extent you are not trying to be yourself.

    Therefore I'm on the be yourself kind of side.
     
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    I'm more 'myself' but within the boundaries I set for myself
     
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    I'm on the "be myself" team. tho I think we can all be different considering different environments, there's a common core in our personality that don't let us be much different from our "true selves".
     
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    To me, being myself ends up being different. People who are labeled "creatives" tend to have a unique perspective and that makes them different.
     
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    I'm mostly on the different side

    i try to stay in the middle though

    I lived the 90's and the 20's so yeah i can be quite confusing, oppar
     
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    I've always been myself, just depends on what type people are around me, some will view me differently regardless.
     
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    I’ve always tried to be normal and fit in. I don’t really but I still do try. I would’ve done anything a few years ago to be a “normal kid”.
     
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    What about this?
     
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    mcnd-1-fan Married to @ahparkchaeyoung
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    What?
     
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    I would’ve done anything a few years ago to be a “normal kid”.
     
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    Yeah. All I ever wanted was to be like everyone else, which I just wasn’t. I was jealous of most kids and secretly quite upset at my parents from setting me apart from other children completely.
     
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    wanna talk about this in dm?
     
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    not really, but thank you
     
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    I'm myself.... which is different lol.
     
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    we are all glue eaters

    we accept

    normies are eww
     
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    Idk, you tell me
     
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