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Are you emotionally attached to idols??

Discussion in 'K-POP' started by botmy, Jul 21, 2018.

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Is it bad to get emotionally attatched?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. botmy

    botmy Notable

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    Im extremely emotionally attatched to BTS. It just happened. Im kinda emotionally attatched to bp and NCT, but thats about it.
    Do you think its bad to get emotionally attatched to them??
     
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    no lol
     
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    Not that much. I mean, I care about them as fellow human beings and wish them well and try to look out for them, but I don't overdo it
     
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    I mean, don't go all saesang, but otherwise it's probably okay?
     
  5. Angelyna_Frost

    Angelyna_Frost Influential

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    I don't think there is anything wrong with forming an emotional attachment to an idol, as long as it doesn't get out of hand. If it starts to get in the way of connecting with real people, that's a problem.

    If you like an idol's music, their personality and watching/listening to them makes you feel good, that's a good thing.
     
  6. botmy

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    Yeah saesangs and going as far as stalking an idol is a no no. I read somehwere that getting emotionally attatched is bad because you'll eventually be let down.
     
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    No. But,I do care for them a lot. But,if they began to date or something then no. It’s more I do hope they’re okay,and they’re proud of themself. But not where I’ll cry unless something gets really bad. It’s not bad to get emotionally attached. As long as you understand you won’t personally know them if something happens. You can enjoy their music,personality and seeing them but not where you want to know everything about them,and want to interact with them
     
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    Not really.

    Its unhealthy if you get so emotionally attached that it negatively affects your life..If you can't stop thinking of them at all times or if you become obsessed then, that's concerning
     
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    I can't even explain, how emotionally attached I am to BLACKPINK. BP is the only group, especially Jisoo. I've never been this "connected" to a people before. And it feels weird... like sometimes when I'm watching a random video about BP or Jisoo herself.. I feel like i have to cry or idk...
     
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    There's a difference between emotional attachment and pure obsession, so I'm sure you're fine ^^
     
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    mmm not really
    like if i catch myself getting too attached, then i take a break from the group a little
    so yup
     
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    same im emotionally attached to bts but like cmon they making music and have a whole concept about loving yourself and the struggles and telling me its ok to fall and not have a dream and telling me that its all gonna be ok and you expect me to NOT get emotionally attached?
    AND RM pulls out some deep, thought provoking, kind words during their concerts??
    hell ya im deeply emotionally invested u got that right.
     
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    Considering that the day Jonghyun died was one of the days I cried the most in my entire life, yes, I am.
     
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    I'm emotionally attached to Twice and Stray Kids. I alr know in 7 years I'm gonna cry my eyes out over there disbandment
     
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    I'm emotionally attached to stanning CLC, I don't know if that's bad or not
     
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    Yes.
    I'm emotionally attached to people whom I think are nice human beings and to people who make me feel safe.
    They create beautiful things and I do believe a lot of them are good people even though they only show us what we want to see on camera.
    Sometimes my faves make me cry.
    Feeling this way is perfectly normal to me as long as it doesn't get out of hand. I care about them as individuals, and as individuals, they are free to live their lives the way they want to.

    I'm attached to BTS, The Rose, HyunA and Taemin a lot. I also feel something similar with other groups I stan and with some of my biases. (Hui, Elris, Yeri...)
     
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    I kinda was lol.. not extremely attached but when my bias was having a hard time with scandels and all I cried a lot and was so depressed to the point it affected my relationships with others, well probably becuase I was already depressed with my life and I considered kpop a way to run away from it especially at that time..
    But now I don't give a fuck lol I only follow them for their music nothing more so I think it's just a phase and it will be gone with time
     
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    amen
     
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    i guess as long you dont think that these idols owe you their life, then it should it be fine.
    to me, fans cross the line when they expect fav idols to drop an official statement for every shit they do.
     
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    Nope. Not just idols. I'm never emotionally attached to any people at all. LOL. I think It shouldn't be that easy o_O
     
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