[16+] What Would You Do If Your Favorite Idol Died?

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  1. seulgipringles

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    I would definitely cry but I'd move on probably like weeks later.
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    I don't want any idol to die but that's how life works :'c
     
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    I would be devastated. The fact that top could have died it sort out messed me up. I feel like you don't have personally know someone to be affected by their death. I cried when robin williams died, When david bowie, alan rickman and glenn frey died in almost the same week I was a mess.
     
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    Reading your comment I have the impression you misses strong empathy with your idols. Your hard shell is just put on?
    Maybe a person in your life has really disappointed you. What star sign are you? Mine is Gemini.

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    I don't think that's quite it though. Empathy comes to me easily, but I think need to feel personal connection for sorrow, I think that's it.

    I'm cancer btw if that interests you ^^
     
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    People born under star sign cancer in general have pronounced empathy :cool:;)
     
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    You are creepy.
     
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    I would be like "oh, that's unfortunate", but then move on. I don't immerse myself to someone who most likely don't know i even exist.
     
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    Personal daily horoscope from Tuesday, December 5, 2017
    (for Hermes1)

    A good sense
    This morning, the closest human relationships are strongly emotional. How easy is it for you to describe your feelings to your partner, a colleague or any other person you encounter on an intimate level...

    ... this influence favors situations in which you need to have a sense of other people's feelings or in which another person should understand your feelings.
     
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    I would be angry and upset. And, of course, I would cry. My girl has a lot to do, and she is just 29. She's been my role model since I was 11. She encouraged me to do a lot of things, and made me stay as a "good" person. She taught me... so many things. I was really young when I met her and I still admire her. She is, just, really important.
     
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    I don’t think I’d cry, it’s would shock and sting but nothing too extreme.

    My family has been hit hard with death for the past two years; my great grandmother, both of my grandads, my uncle. Those deaths have numbed me down? They were all very close people to me, but after hearing the news so many times, there were no more tears to shed, I think I would only cry for very close family at this point
     
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    It would effect me alot more than anyone i know probably, unless they are immediate family members or someone extremely close (unless i see the death myself) because i actually connect with idols to extreme level, one of the reasons I cant stan more than one group. I would be... in a constant state of not feeling anything probably. At least for a week. Then I would start crying, now that i proceed the thought of not seeing him, ever again. In a way we see them alot more than their own parents, honestly I would be really affected. I think i would just... continue crying randomly, as long as i hear his voice and see his photos, my bias group couldnt handle a death of a member too, I think they would either disband or go on a really long period of hiatus. I wouldnt be able to return any old videos, cant see them without remembering the death member, i think i would leave the fandom, or at least try.
     
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    I would be really sad and I'm pretty sure, that I would cry..

    ... I remember, that I was incredibly sad and devastated, when I heard, that EunB and RiSe died... and I only was a casual fan... To be honest I still cry, when I listen to their song "I'm Fine Thank You"...
     
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    Already disbandment make me crying - but a minute later I'm angry with CEO.
     
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    Dear @ApissipA ,

    there is a basic difference if your grandma, granddad or uncle dies, or if a young girl / boy from kpop group would die.

    Older people often could look back on a fulfilled life. But if young people (age 17 - 25) die they had never the chance
    to enjoy life over some decades.

    If young girls / boys (18-22) died by car accident (often after they drove home from discothek) I miss words and pray for them.

    Our modern world forces us to gain as much experience as possible. to gain as much experience as possible
    Alcohol, drugs lead to addiction. Internet addiction leads to loneliness. Sex is valued higher than love.

    We have to be careful with the delicate plant of love. Also kpop artists need space to realize themselves.
    The contracts of the kpop industry prohibits relations in the first 3 years is a crime.

    Unfortunately, the government does not object, instead they let the companies grant.

    Life consists of inner balance. Kpop music helps me achieve this balance. I am infinitely grateful for that.

    The k-pop artists have a higher status than they are assigned by the music industry of S-Korea.

    Greetings your
    Hermes1

    Taegoo makes my soul health
     
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    I would be sad but unless it is on a scale like the Ferry or a War, shoot even then you move on help who you can and stay happy.
    When my family has died I miss them but I feel excessive grieving is selfish wallowing in self pity. Its harder with the young to very young because of what could have been, but life by definition ends.
     
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    Of course I am going to cry. Cry hearing about any musician death. Music is the only thing in life that brings me happiness. So when something as sad as death happens in the music industry it hurts me hard. I don’t know what I would do if Sungmin or Any of the members of super Junior passed away. I mean a lot of crying would be a given but their might be something more.
     
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    That Choa has left AOA, has already thrown me off track.

    How the music industry deals with kpop artists is a scandal.

    Disbandments:
    KARA
    4Minute
    After School
    Rainbow
    2NE1
    Sistar
    Miss-A
    T-ara
    SNSD


    Every time a kpop girl group disbanded, part of my soul dies.

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