[16+] Do You Care About Virginity Or Level Of Sexual Experience In A Romantic Partner?

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    [16+] Do You Care About Virginity Or Level Of Sexual Experience In A Romantic Partner?

    So...

    Do you care about virginity in a partner?

    Do you care about the level of experience they have? Do you want them to be experienced? Or not?

    Do you care if they've had many partners prior to you? Or not that many? None?

    What do you care about or not care about?


    Me:
    My answer depends.

    But I'd be lying if I said a woman's sexual history didn't matter to me.

    For potential partners or women I desire a long term relationship with, I prefer little to no sexual history (or at least not a long list of past partners). Preferably virgins.

    I've been in 3 relationships. 2 were virgins prior to our relationship and 1 had only 1 prior previous partner.

    I care about promiscuity in a potential romantic partner.

    Of course this is simply preference. If I were to fall in love with someone I don't know that it'd make any difference what their sexual history was.

    I've had my fair share of other engagements, and in those more casual exchanges it doesn't matter to me in the same way.




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    I mean it doesn't really matter to me as long as they don't think I'm just gonna give myself to them because others did.....

    It'll be really awkward if I had met one of their sexual partners, not because of their previous relationship, but because I'm a awkward person myself....

    To meet their previous partner my thoughts will be all over the place....

    But I do want someone with some experience (seeing I have none) so they could *cough*coachme*cough*.....
     
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    All I care about is whether my partner has the same libido or at least the same mindset as I do when going into sex.
     
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    I feel like it wouldn't matter
    The only important part in sexual history is fear of stds lol
     
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    I rather he have the sexual experience than him being a virgin.
     
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    My bf is not a virgin and I don't think I really cared when we first got together...but I if I look back, I'm happy he had experience, a lot more than I ever had. I think the real thing that matters to me is the same level of libido.
     
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    Well... I have barely any experience, so I do need someone to guide me since I'm a very shy person when it comes to sex.

    But I do think that i'd rather be with someone with only few experience but just enough than someone who goes around. Not that it's a bad thing, I respect people's lifestyle.. it's just my preference. But like you, would it really matter if I fell in love real hard?
     
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    Nope. I've never really cared about how many or how few people someone has slept with in the past. All I care about is whether there is a sexual connection there between us both.

    Though that said. My last 3 sexual partners were all virgins.
     
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    it doesn't matter really, each partner was a new learning experience for me,
    figuring out what makes them tick and vice versa i enjoy doing that, so virgin or not hasn't made a difference to me....
    its been equal parts virgins and non virgins in my sexual history.
     
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    Yes, I do consider it to be important. I do expect a partner to have a bit of experience and know what to do. Luckily, my partner has been married before so he is fairly experienced as am I.
     
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    i guess im the only one who finds it cute when we're both virgins just experimenting and learning about preferences and stuff??? no??? maybe i need to stop reading fanfics lmfao
     
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    No I don't mind their sexual experience or whether they are virgins.
     
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    I want to be my husband first love and experience , and I am also saving myself until marriage , so I hope he also be same like me , I hope we be each other first experience and love .

    if I happen to meet someone who I am not his first but he does love me from all his heart and I did feel his love then I wouldn't reject him , but I might be disappointed that I am not his first as well .
     
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    All about that virgin life for both of us:dancer:
     
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    I guess I'll feel less awkward losing my virginity to another virgin lol. If she had some partners before is okay, but those had to be actual relationships
     
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    Idrc as I’m likely going to end up in an asexual relationship anyway so past partners or no partners doesn’t matter to me...
     
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    Don't care about it as long as there's no STI involved.
    I care more about is Sehun a virgin or not now
     
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    I can't lie and say I don't care. I'm happy about the fact that my boyfriend wasn't experienced before me. I'm pretty sure he likes the fact that I wasn't experienced before him as well.
     
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