While I'm sure they're very warm inside, many idols, for whatever reason, just don't come across that way. Which ones have seemed cool and distant to you? Let's try to avoid bashing them if we can. For me it's Kris. I watched everything EXO M did in the early days, and I've seen a variety appearance and clips since then. I've also seen pictures of him. Perhaps he's just shy or socially awkward, but he's never seemed friendly or relaxed to me. He always looks uncomfortable, even when he's trying to relax.