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Kim Gu Ra gives some sound advice on 'fearing your own child'

By jubilantj   Monday, May 23, 2016   20,323   649   28
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On the May 23 airing of 'Same Bed Different Dreams,' Kim Gu Ra gave some advice, which stems from personal experience, to a married couple who claimed to have been constantly arguing for over ten years. 


Kim Gu Ra empahsized that the conflict between the spouses should not affect the children, as it tends to have a negative effect on them especially when they are at an impressionable, vulnerable age. Kim Gu Ra advised sagaciously, "As someone with issues at my home, there are times I express my discontent to Donghyun (his son, known as MC GREE). One day, I was surprised to see that [Donghyun's] facial expression darkened when I spoke badly of his mother.


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Kim Gu Ra continued, "I realized that I should stop [speaking badly of my ex-wife], so I just stopped. The kid saw and felt how I felt. Donghyun is a kid who cares for his mother dearly but he told her off. His mother was so shocked and started to be afraid of him," and concluded wisely, "You must fear your child. The mother also should not speak badly of the father to the child. The kid knows better." 




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hallyu_fan Tuesday, May 24, 2016

yep. We KNOW MORE than you think. Perhaps we have different problems, but as a child with broken home parents since literally I'm an infant, you can't expect kids like us to not knowing anything. We don't know and confused about what to do. But we aware of the situation as well. It's REALLY hard for children when their parents bad-mouthing each other in front of them. It's not like we can choose when both mom and dad have their own partake for the difficult circumstances - .-

qo21 Monday, May 23, 2016

my mother's friend was abused by her husband up until two weeks ago when her now eighteen-yo son chucked an axe at him through a window to get him to stop. now he's docile as fck.

kpophilippines Monday, May 23, 2016

Yeah, Kids should be treated in a good way, so that kids can act and think in a right way. Fearing your child shows that you didnt instill good manners to him.

SpringxTempo Monday, May 23, 2016

I know this guy gets a lot of hate, but there's something about him that makes me actually kinda like him. It's like Park Myungsoo, they both play evil roles for television but are actually nice people. It's pretty funny because they both work with YJS, and YJS brings out the best in them.

Popview Monday, May 23, 2016

Instead of fearing your own kid why not just give him some respect?

kpophilippines Popview Monday, May 23, 2016

Yeahm, Kids should be treated in a good way, so that kids can act and think in a right way. Fearing your child shows that you didnt instill good manners to him.

lulzbrooks Popview Monday, May 23, 2016

That's what it means. You are fearing your own child because you don't want to lose their respect.

Popview lulzbrooks Monday, May 23, 2016

fear doesn't equal respect

kpophilippines lulzbrooks Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Ha? That is very contradicting, nowadays, how the parents treat their children is different, if you let your child disrespect you its the parents fault. Teach your children to respect you, dont let your children fear you.

lulzbrooks kpophilippines Tuesday, May 24, 2016

What?? You are talking about a totally different thing. Fearing your own children means that you are afraid to disappoint them, you are afraid that your child is going to lose respect for you. Nobody talked about disrespecting. "Fearing your child shows that you didnt instill good manners to him" I disagree with that statement. You think a child should 100% always respect their parents? Even if they do something wrong or horrid? No. It's called free thinking.

kpophilippines lulzbrooks Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Yeah, respect, a kid can answer or say what they want in a good way.

Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

im sorry but i have a bad vibes on this guy never like him anyway every seperate or divorced parents never talk bad each other especially when they are alone with their kids...

Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

should or ever talk bad i mean it will affect them so bad ...

NgohiongPuso Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

Are you saying this from experience or you are just saying from your lack of knowledge?

CoraMassia Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

What you just said is not true. As someone who has seen and experienced it through many sides of my family, i can say you are dead wrong. Divorced couples with children and even married couples with children do still talk bad aout them infront of there own children and even grandchildren. so do not say such things unless you know them as fact.

Kabo_desu CoraMassia Monday, May 23, 2016

i have bestfreind who s parents divorced and it was hard for the them because both parents fighting in fron of them even they are not together so i said is a good advice for some parens who getting divorced they chould think of the welfare of their children and it affects them emotional and my bestfriends did and even get a psychology doctors to help her to cope some problems with her parents ... seriously you think i have no encounter of this situations before you jump to conclusion and judge me like im kinda ignorant in taht kind of situations... God Bless!

Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

" Front " " Should " " that "

CoraMassia Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

re-read what you have written. because you are contradicting what you have just said. as you said that seperated and divorced parents NEVER talk bad about each other infront of there kids. i did not jump to conclusion as what you wrought clearly stated that.

Kabo_desu CoraMassia Monday, May 23, 2016

i said that his adivce was good that every parents who is in divorced or seperated should never fight in fron of the kids or talk bad i just sadi i don't like the guy KIM Gu Ra ... sorry if you misunderstood what is commented.. have a grwat day and God Bless! PEACE!

Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

: ADVICE " " Front " " Said " " Great "

CoraMassia Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

I have just seen that the comments are slow an did not show up right away...

CoraMassia Kabo_desu Monday, May 23, 2016

so i did not see the second post untill now. i am sorry about that.

Kabo_desu CoraMassia Monday, May 23, 2016

thats okey ... ^_^

ed_levy Monday, May 23, 2016

lol this fat fucker. this is the same guy who pushes his son onto his juniors in the industry and uses his power to force producers to practice extreme nepotism for him? his story is that his wife shouldn't talk shit about him lol? and if she does then even her son will attack her? trash .

Riyagus ed_levy Monday, May 23, 2016

maybe you have to search about Kim Gura's conflict and his wife. It is related to money. Kim Gura's money is spent to pay his wife's family debt. I think.

NiliriaD ed_levy Monday, May 23, 2016

what are you even on lol

NgohiongPuso ed_levy Monday, May 23, 2016

Calling nepotism is quite an insult to his son.. his son is striving hard not to be recognized through his father and yet here you are indirectly saying that his son has no talent and is only famous because of his father.... such a douchebag!

gureumcloud ed_levy Monday, May 23, 2016

The point of his story is that neither parent should do it. I don't know where you're getting "and if she does then even her son will attack her." He literally said that that happened because HE talked shit and that it was something he realized he shouldn't have done.

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